OpenWRT does have a command build in, for a “sort of” standby mode. Basically turning off wireless.
“uci set wireless.radioNumber.disabled=‘1’” - no more wifi.
“uci set wireless.radioNumber.disabled=‘0’” - wifi back online.
An easy way to make this happen is through scripting on your phone. On iOS you can use shortcuts to do this, on android I’m not sure.
I don’t think there’s much else you can do. You also might have a problem turning it on again without having an ethernet cable to access SSH after taking it offline.
Of course you could setup a remote access terminal, but then you’d need at least a little bit of mobile data to access the remote ssh🤷♂️