Thank you so so much for the thoughtful and super useful reply @elorimer <3
Your message prompted me to look a bit deeper into the VPN configuration. In the end, what worked is swapping my configuration fro dev tun to dev tun, and swapping from UDP → TCP and setting the correct port (for tunnel over tcp).
I should probably mention that my current test setup is I have my iPhone tethered to the Beryl (and the Beryl is using the “tether” internet option accordingly). I don’t know if I switch to “repeater” mode for internet if this would effect my setup (?). I’ve done a bit of reading but I’m a bit limited on time at the moment and my primary goal is not to access my home network while I’m away, but rather to have my traffic from my router appear to come from my home address.
This thread (which is old I realize) vpn - Should I use tap or tun for openvpn? - Server Fault makes me think that “tun” is OK for my purposes.
Thanks again for your help, really appreciate it!