If you login and go to the tab System -> Administration -> SSH access (tab) you can delete all entries
this really depends, from my experience from the outside ssh is not reachable, and since your router is not having the same standards a typical server has (with open wan for ssh), you should be mostly fine, the outside is much more dangerous than a local device if you maintain good passwords.
of course it is arguable, but then you should look into key authentication, putty has a program called puttygen this works perfectly, this way you don't need a password anymore which makes it alot more secure against bruteforcing, if you still want a password you want a long one, and maybe consider installing something like fail2ban which drop connections from bruteforce attacks.
you can also segment/isolate ssh access through lucis same menu by limiting the interfaces , and disable password and root login.